Thursday, July 23, 2026
Summer Beauty: A Call to Keep Company
Saturday, May 23, 2026
Deepening Our Roots
Monday, February 16, 2026
Above All Else: Jesus Over Everything
Saturday, June 14, 2025
The Way to Grow
I love all the seasons, and perhaps God brings the sometimes slower days of summer to teach us, and to grow us in fresh, beautiful ways. All I need do is to linger in the beauty of our gardens ... our new planter boxes built into our brand new deck, our herb garden, and our veggie garden. The beauty, the growth, the blossoms and the fruit do not happen overnight. And it does not happen with a loud fanfare. It happens quietly, in silence, in the sending down of the roots deep into the soil, of soaking up the spring & summer rains. The tender new plants gain strength so very quietly. And we can hardly take in the beauty of what comes over time.
It's the quiet daily routines and rhythms that bring growth. Resulting in beauty. We can become used to the prevailing thought of our day, that things need to happen instantly. If we need to wait for anything, we very quickly become impatient. But this is not the way that brings lasting growth.
(I Thess. 4:11)
Our souls need the same ... quietness, pausing, listening, letting our roots grow down into Him. What does the pausing and listening look like for you? For me? Does it happen automatically, or do we sometimes need to make an intentional effort to be quiet, to pause. You would think it would just automatically happen, and yes, sometimes it does.
But other times maybe we need to intentionally plan for quiet. For rest. For a pausing of our work.
Could this be what our great Creator God modeled for us in the beginning? When "He rested from all His work" on the seventh day, blessing the day and "declaring it holy" (Gen. 2:2-3). Could this be what our loving Father meant when He said "You have six days each week for your ordinary work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath day of rest". (Deut. 5:13-14)
Maybe we've grown up with a bit of an aversion to the word Sabbath. It has often been abused, misinterpreted, and has often led to legalistic practices. But maybe we need to relearn the importance of the gift that God desires to bless us with continuously.
About a year ago, after reading The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, and several other books on the same topic, my dear hubby and I put a new rhythm into practice. Even in our retirement, we sensed a need to intentionally set aside days for quiet, for rest. These words are sprinkled throughout all of God's Word. And our days and our weeks so easily can become completely filled up with tasks and responsibilities. This can happen at whatever season of life we are in.
We decided to set aside one day each week to focus specifically on rest. Though we usually think of Sundays being the day for rest, for us Sundays actually are the day of the week that we need to get up even earlier than the other days, causing the day to begin with a sense of hurry. Our Sundays do continue to be a special day set aside for corporate worship with our spiritual family, learning from the insight and teaching of our pastors, all things we love so much. And we do enjoy a slower pace throughout the rest of the day. But we craved for more rest, for a whole day of rest.
So one year ago on the first Saturday of June 2024, we began what we call our weekly "Sabbath Rest" day. An intentional day of pausing from our work, of resting, of listening to and seeking after God. It's also a day of taking a break from our regular "tasks", and focusing on hobbies, on things that feed our souls, things that give us deep joy.
(Psalm 46:10)
And this is where you would find me today, if you were here with me as I am writing this post. I'm sitting out on our new deck (built for us by dear friends last fall), surrounded by beautiful flowers in the planter boxes and the flower pots right next to me. I'm pausing from my work of the week - much of it that I do enjoy, but also that keeps me quite busy. And I am resting, listening, and my soul is being filled up, and renewed in Him. Which in turn fills me up with joy as I write this post.
Maybe for you it doesn't work to take a whole day each week for true rest. But you can start with a few hours, or with part of a day. Or with pockets of time sprinkled throughout a very full season of your life. The daily quieting of our souls is so essential, even when we intentionally take a whole day for rest. Pausing, leaving our work to take short, or extended times to care for our hearts and souls is a gift from Him. Cultivating Sabbath hearts, creating healthy soil for our roots to grow down deep into the truths of His love. And we will then overflow with the fruit of thankfulness.
and let your lives be built on Him.
Then your faith will grow strong
in the truth you were taught,
and you will overflow with thankfulness.
Colossians 2:7 NLT
Monday, April 21, 2025
Slowing Down to Enjoy and Focus on the Most Important Things
I always love to find books that speak the language of my heart. And The Urgency of Slowing Down was just this kind of book for me. It was a joy to read through this book recently by a new-to-me author.
Though the concepts were not new to me, I loved the refreshing reminders of how to slow down in our everyday lives. It seems there will always need to be reminders for this, no matter our age. It is written with so many practical, and fresh ideas to make slowing down a reality in our lives.
As I often do when I finish reading an insightful and encouraging book, I will go back and make some notes of some of the favorite things I have underlined while reading through the book. Good quotes to keep nearby to share, or to even be reminded of myself.
Here are a few to share with you ...
Saturday, November 30, 2024
A November Collection: Our Sacrifice of Thanksgiving, A Good Book, and a Blessed Thanksgiving Day
Saturday, August 17, 2024
Silence: The Condition for True Listening
Quieting my heart for intentional extended times, and also for moments of time throughout a day to listen deeply to God first of all, and also to our precious kids and grandkids, and to all whom God brings our way.
We need to be people who listen, day and night, most of all, to God, quieting our hearts so we can really hear.
Monday, February 26, 2024
Cultivating ... Daily, and Intentionally
As the cold days of winter begin to fade away and as the first faint signs of spring begin to draw us in, we find ourselves longing for new life. We even may be starting to dream and prepare for our veggie and flower gardens. We begin to prepare our spaces, and also the soil for new spring life.
In the same way, after the restful, maybe quieter days of winter, I am also reminded this time of year to prepare my heart for a new season of growth. Preparing to grow my heart for what matters the most. Maybe because a bit of the winter cold has settled in? And I find myself longing for some breaths of fresh air in my soul.
So I am welcoming these seasonal reminders to pay attention to more than just preparing the soil of our gardens for spring, but to also pay attention to and to nourish what matters the most to me. Is it the same for you? Have the cold winter days (though they do have a charm of their own) and the days of less sunlight left you longing for new life?
This is the setting for what grabbed my attention a few weeks ago, as I pulled another verse card from my growing collection of favorite verses.
Trust in the Lord and do good;
Dwell in the land
and cultivate faithfulness.
(Psalm 37:3 NASB)
It was the whole verse, but especially the word cultivate that drew my attention. This is what we do in early spring to prepare for the growth that spring/summer brings in our gardens.
And I wonder the same for my heart ... how can I cultivate my heart for this new season?
But first, what does cultivate even mean?
"Cultivate" - (from Webster's Dictionary online)
"to direct special attention to, to devote time and thought to,
to care for with a view to valuable returns, to till, to fertilize,
to improve by care or study."
And another helpful list of meanings:
"Cultivate" - (from Lara Casey's book Cultivate)
"serve, nurture, nourish, prepare, encourage,
improve, refine, pay attention, foster growth,
loosen and break up hard ground,
and care for what you've been given."
Isn't this what we desire for our lives? To nurture and to till up the soil of our hearts for growth? it's a continual thing, all through the varying seasons, to care for our hearts. To be in tune to listen intently to the One who loves us more than we can even imagine. It's easy to become dry and in need of nourishment.
Above all else, guard your heart,
for everything you do flows from it.
(Proverbs 4:23 NIV)
Above all else, for the condition and the health of our hearts affects everything. And this is why we need the reminders to continually cultivate our hearts. To faithfully cultivate. To cultivate faithfulness.
Just how do we cultivate faithfulness? Maybe it will look different practically for you, and for me. But for all of us, it begins in the heart, doesn't it? It's a desire, a longing, to spend time with Jesus. In His Word; not just the rote reading of His Words, but reading with a longing to hear from Him. To hear His heart, to hear what is Truth. And to share our heart with Him in response. A heart that also then seeks to live out His Truth in every area of our lives.
It's a relationship, not a mere religion or a task to check off our list. A relationship that needs nurturing, time, and yes, even effort. Pausing in this busy, broken world, for what is most important. And for what we long for.
Just as each plant, flower, herb are unique, each of us are created uniquely, What does the soil of your heart need now, right now in the season of life that you are in? The soil of your heart, of your life, may need different specifics of nourishment than mine. But we all need continual tilling, and ongoing nourishment to continue producing and blooming.
Right now, I am discovering that I am needing even more frequent pauses, and needing even added nutrients to refresh the condition of the soil of my heart. We have had a lot going on recently ... offering support and encouragement to a brother in need in his Parkinsons condition, preparing our home for a needed (and wonderful) remodeling project which includes going through closets and rooms that need to be simplified and organized, and at the same time, keeping up with all that is part of the many callings and passions that God has given us, including each one in our precious family.
Cultivate faithfulness ...
So I am needing to take extra time to tend to my heart these days and weeks. Extra needs call for extra care of the soil. Daily attention and cultivating. Focused time reading His Words, listening and learning at the start of my day, pausing in the midst of my day, and quieting my heart again with journal and pen in His Presence at the end of the day.
Tilling up the soil of our hearts, receiving nourishment from His Word, His Love. And over time, we will see sprouts, and we will see growth. Season after season. Cultivating faithfulness. Our lives will keep on blossoming and reflecting the beauty that we were created for. By His grace and mercy alone.
Sunday, October 29, 2023
Our Everyday Invitation
Do you long for closeness, as I do, everyday deep connections? Our hearts are made for connection. For relationship. With those nearest to us, and those we love who live far from us. And how can we even find what we long for in the midst of our busy days, in this beautiful but broken, hurting world and culture that we live in? Where do we turn to find what we long for, what we so desperately search for?
And maybe our first step, and our first longing, is for deep, intimate connection with the God who made us, who created us so that He could shower His love on us. He desires to pour His love into each one of us. His love for you. For me. The deepest kind of love, the most treasured connection that we could ever wish for. An everyday heart-to-heart relationship. And then, filled up with this closeness of being deeply loved, we find that the overflow of this love spills out to nurture and grow the other deep relationships and connections that we long for with those around us.
How do we nurture this kind of connection and relationship with the God who loves us so deeply? May I suggest a simple tool that helps me day-by-day? It may not be the tool that you need, for we are all made differently, but maybe it will encourage you in some way.
For me, it begins with a heart that is longing for and desiring deep connection, and also, it begins with pen and paper. Why pen, and why paper? For me, it means that I must pause from the never-ending things that draw my attention (even good and wonderful things), and focus. I need to still my heart to write. To take the time to put my heart and longings into words, and onto paper. To express what is in my thoughts, and on my heart.
Maybe it could be compared to pulling up a comfy chair to spend focused one-on-one time with someone we love. Of course, this dialogue with God happens anytime, anywhere, even in the middle of the night when awakened or unable to sleep ... but an intentional pausing maybe is like accepting a special invitation for deep, one-on-one connection. I accept the invitation, and come to the table (or to a soft chair or loveseat) with pen and paper, pausing my sometimes (often) busy pace, to draw close, to listen and learn from Him.
I then pick up His Word, with a heart ready to listen and learn. And as I read His words with my heart, I will hear His heart. And then I will write down, word for word, the verses that speak truth to my heart. Not writing all that I read, of course, but writing the specific verses that reach deeply into my heart. Words of love, and words of truth that I so desperately need. Words and truths that I long for. That touch me in the deepest places. Opening up His Word, writing what I read on paper, storing it in my heart. And then responding to Him, pausing, and writing my thoughts to Him.
This meeting of hearts, by His grace and mercy, and made possible by the ultimate sacrifice of Jesus, is what we are made for. Our greatest treasure ... to be loved by Him.
Behold, I'm standing at the door, knocking.
If your heart is open to hear My voice
and you open the door within,
I will come in to you, and feast with you,
and you will feast with Me.
(Rev. 3:20 The Passion Translation)
And we will find that this love, His love, then overflows from our hearts to those around us. Bringing deeper connections and relationships than we ever imagined. And by His grace, we will live a life of pulling up close to those we love and those He brings our way. We will pause our busy lives, and listen intently. And we will speak words of life and encouragement with each other, finding the deep connections and relationships that we all long for.

















